Thursday, December 22, 2016




December 22, 2016

Dear St. Katharine of Siena School Families, 
       As we approach the Christmas break, below is a Christmas message of mine from the past.  My family and I are five years removed from my Dad's passing, and this Christmas would have been his 96th  birthday.  It is also the first Christmas for my sister, Rose,  and her family after having lost my nephew , Kevin , this past April. For all our families who are celebrating your Christmas without a loved for the first time, my heartfelt prayers of comfort and peace to you and your families. 

       We have had a wonderful week before Christmas here in school.  There was (some) academics but for this week the focus was on our faith, and sharing our togetherness as a school community at this most "wonderful time of the year."  

       As a collective group, the Faculty/Staff and I are grateful beyond words for your kindness and generosity for your contribution to the Teacher/Staff  Fund,  cards, and gifts. If I eat half of these treats my waistline is in big trouble. I know for a fact this does not happen elsewhere, and to such a generous extent. We, who work here,  are not rich monetarily. However, we are rich in so many other ways. One of those ways is that our SKS Families continually support this school and the efforts of our teachers /staff. I'll say it again:We are grateful beyond words. 
          

The following is a re-issue from  Mr. T.'s News & Notes dated December 20, 2011. 

  Quote: “May the peace of the Lord be with you,
      With your friends and family too.
Let it be; let it flow ,
                         And wherever you go ,                                     
               May the peace of the Lord be with you. “

                                                Advent Song

Dear Parents,

            No educational thoughts or philosophy in this issue.  
“Tis the season.”  A season of  joy, wonder, and awe.  A season of  holiness, togetherness, and celebration.  This is as it should be, friends. It is, after all, His birthday.  Christmas reminds us of our faith, and our love for our faith, our family, and friends and the  Christmas traditions that have been passed in our families from generation to generation.  I hope the Christmas Concert by our younger grades, as well as The Christmas Tableau by our older grades helped you in cherishing the true spirit and reason for the  season.  Our students performed beautifully, and I commend our teachers for their efforts in putting these SKS traditional events together each year. Events like these play a huge part in helping define who we are. 
            Over the last few years, I have always shared something personal with you about my family and our past Christmas's.  I have vivid memories of past holidays, including the time the new train set arrived (lots of hammering and sawing sounds in the garage the night before by Santa’s elves!) and the time I received a Davy Crockett wagon and the coon-skin hat that Santa got especially for me! Wonder and awe at its best.
 This year will be our first Christmas together without my Dad, and Christmas Day is his birthday.  He would have been 91 one years young.  It will be very bittersweet for us as we celebrate both the birthday of Jesus and remember my Dad lovingly: who he was, how he lived, and what he and my mom have given us.  Dad loved Christmas, and it was not just because it was his birthday. Mostly, he loved Christmas because it was a time we would always find quality time to be together. Exchanging presents was a part of it of course, but the real gift was the presence of each other, not the presents. The real present was in watching us grow from kids to adults, and then our own kids grow …and realize that the true gift of Christmas is the gift of families being together and expressing their love and appreciation for each other.  There is no better gift to receive.   
My Dad  and Mom were givers. They always got more out of giving than receiving.  My Mom has been a 1st team All American shopper for decades.   She’s been known to find the perfect present for every person to the point that each receiver of the gift would echo the same thing:“How did you know this is what I needed?”  
As this year is about to come to a close, as we approach Christmas Day, I will remember my Dad lovingly, and although his physical presence will be missed, I know my mom (who will be 90 on the feast of The Epiphany on January 6th) , my family and I will celebrate a wonderful Christmas together and remember my Dad as a man who lived well and loved well, most especially at this time of year.  
Thank you for everything you have done for this parish/school community.   On behalf of our faculty and staff, my family and I, may I wish you and your families love, peace, comfort, and joy for a Holy Christmas and a Healthy and Happy New Year.

Take care,



Bud 

P.S. - Enjoy seeing the many pictures below of our school in action the last two weeks! 


The KG -4 Christmas Concert brought great joy in the Advent Season to a packed church. We were thrilled to see so many families and so many grandparents who were able to attend.  






Fourth Grade Boys in their Christmas best dress. 



Sean Maguire and Matt Evans and the entire 8th Grade delivered homemade Christmas cards made by our school and poinsettias to many of our SKS Homebound Parishioners. Several of our parishioners called or wrote back to express their gratitude.


A mentor of 8th grade parent Mark Mulvanerty, NBA Toronto Raptors color commentator, Jack Armstrong, talked to 7th and 8th grade about many life lessons, including little things such as the importance of a handwritten note. We hand wrote him a "thank you" for spending time with us.   



Third Grade had a reading of The Polar Express in PJ's. 


Winners in three different divisions in our Keep Christ in Christmas poster contest sponsored by the  SKS Knights of Columbus. 


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CENTENNIAL CHRISTMAS DOOR DECORATING CONTEST





The Christmas Door Decorating Contest was amazing and the competition was fierce!





Making and eating pizzelles is a First Grade Christmas Tradition. 




Fourth and Second Grade "Buddies" worked together on a Christmas glyph. 







The 1st & 8th Grade Buddies Bowling /Pizza Party  
was so much fun! 



The SKS Band and Choir led the student body in song at today's Christmas Concert and Sing - Along 












The Annual Christmas Tableau  (grades 5 - 8) had a packed church filled with families and many alumni who attended.




The last of seven Boccella's to attend SKS: Matt Boccella (pictured bottom left with his sister Maria) poses with his  siblings who all attended SKS. From  the back  l to r are: John, Mark, Patrick , Joe , and Nick.   



Wednesday, December 7, 2016

"God is good all the time. All the time, God is good."
                                            Morning Prayer at SKS 

December 7, 2016

       Dear St. Katharine of Siena School Families,
                        I know how busy we are all are at the this time of year.  I 'll keep this blog short. Here's some reminders.

      1.  Report Cards for First Trimester will be given out next Tuesday /Wednesday. You should sign the envelope where the parent signature space is and keep the report card. A letter from me will accompany the report card that explains the report cards.  I have preached for years about the importance of the left side of the report card for grades 1 -8.  A student's attitude and effort are far more important than a student's grades. Praise effort, persistence, resilience, and hard work; not intelligence. 


     2. I am sharing with you a chart (see below) that I have shared with the faculty regarding the Fixed Mindset vs The Growth Mindset. I have written about this topic previously. It's at the forefront of education these days.  Children (and adults too) often experience a Fixed Mindset. When they experience frustration, use the terminology on the the right side  of the chart to turn it into a Growth Mindset. Copy this. This is  refrigerator material right next to the picture of the dog and your chore list! It's good teaching and good parenting. Change the mindset, which changes the attitude, which changes the results! 

     Find five minutes each day in this Advent Season, as you prepare for Christmas, to reflect on our many blessings as a school community. 

Take care,

Bud 
      




                 


                                                                 Breakfast With Santa
                                                                               

















Fifth Grade Gift Giving Tree for Guadalupe 
Family Services in Camden


November's collection  for Cradles to Crayons





     SKS Student Study Center (2nd floor outside the Art Room) 
      







Santa's Secret Workshop